it has occurred to me that sometimes, in groups, say, of musicians, that one of those involved in is a sexual relationship with another involved, possibly the leader. possibly a not very exclusive relationship.
it sometimes seems that the sexual relationship was more important than the working one.
as if the sexual relationship is the reason for the working one.
that sounds like it’s never a good idea.
and I can’t imagine me doing that.
I mean I can’t imagine a woman and I having a thing together (ha) and then BECAUSE of the thing, having her in one of my groups.
sorry sweetheart, but it doesn’t work that way.
and WOW I’m a jerk!
and/or a big loser. yep.