is being approved of by others important, or is being honest and real(and therefore approved by ONESELF) important…

I know the answer.

Dammit, people should just what THEY LIKE. EVERYONE should do this.

that way, people wouldn’t be SECOND-HANDING everything, trying to GUESS what others want, and practically ignoring what THEY THEMSELVES want/are/need.

and no, little though of compromise has yet gone into this, after ALL, compromise comes, if at all, later, not in the beginning.

first you have a position, an ideal, an authentic, a real.