note to self…
you KNOW what “normal people” are gonna say about your ways of doing things, so why bother asking.

they’re gonna disapprove (maybe) and tell you you should be more normal, or more like THEM and less like YOU.

poing(poing? point) being:

if you haven’t already gone all the way with BEING YOURSELF,
then don’t bother asking others for advice on how to be them instead of how to be you- just go through with being you.

you probably are lacking confidence, you probably are assuming that you should get the same results as others, you probably are comparing yourself to them.

unless you have a TON of experience, screw all that.

go back to being yourself, and stick with it, and not with a disempowered impoverished, “if I fail one time, I give up” version of yourself, but a Strong, Courageous, TO THE HILT version. MANY TIMES.

if THAT STILL fails, only THEN think about a new plan.

until then…. stick with plan A, that is,
BE YOURSELF.