people happier when THEIR needs are met

personally I think people are happier when their OWN needs are met, and THEIR OWN feelings are acknowledged and taken care of, rather than just subjugating them (almost always without their consent or even understanding (thanks tradition and religion)
yeah, rather than subjugating them to some grand larger whole, which may not have “anything” to do with THEM and THEIR FEELINGS.

it probably teaches them that

1. their own feelings don’t matter, and are bad; THEY don’t matter themselves,
2. BUT- if you subjugate yourself to “whatever”, you somehow become valuable, good,

eventhoughyouhaveandarecontinuingtominimizeyourownfeelingsandneedsandaremore-than-likelyteachingthisdiseasetoyoungpeopleoverandoverandoveragain.

PEOPLE! dammit, STOP IT!
ACKNOWLEDGE “YOUR” SELF AND “YOUR” FEELINGS AND NEEDS!!!

yeah, I think the world, if it ever happens, will be a lot less fucked up if we

accept that we are human and stop being guilty about it.

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