politicians (and everyone) shouldn’t be OPPORTUNIST. they should STAND for things and do them.
either things THEY THEMSELVES care about, and/or things that OTHERS do.
not just whatever’s popular, whatever’s gonna work.
I’m NOT sorry, but doing whatever WORKS isn’t ok. it puts you at the mercy of meaningless bullshit, and that is UNfuckinacceptable.
and by the WAY; I mean this ARTISTICALLY, and in ALL MANNER OF WAYS, not just politics, not even specifically politics.
Category Archives: Frustrations about women ‘n’ stuff
ehh, let’s be more positive, yes.
WHAT others appreciate about you
trying to control WHAT others appreciate about you is one thing.
but believing that you don’t deserve appreciation simply for normal human qualities is QUITE another, particularly if it causes to try to control what others appreciate about you.
it might even lead you to not present yourself for a great many experiences, because you think that all you have to offer is being abnormal, extreme, crazy, weird, special, different. (it’s not like people didn’t make me feel guilty for being normal as a child, nor appreciate me only when I was special and different (they did, and they did, nor is it like many of my interests genuinely were and ARE in things that are less common and normal than some.)
…
Happiness. enough, I may indeed have.
I make some money this month (less than required, but more than usual by plenty. (July’s always like this.)
It has occurred to me,
if I had sorta enough money, not millions, just thousands)
and was playing some music,
that would be enough to be happy.
should it not be.
it is.
and I gots and have always had the music, lucky me.
guess things really ain’t that bad then:)
thank everyone for my nifty education, in the normal stuff (I went to a good high school, though I may not have appreciated it then (Irondequoit:)
and
learned nifty music stuff at Hochstein school in downtown Rochester,
and at SUNY Potsdam Crane School And and
Cadets Drum Corps
and at the Boat (long story)
and hanging around Eastman school
and CalArts.
and in life.
me happy.
Thought of the Day, perhaps the life:
Thought of the Day, perhaps the life:
don’t give the care of your inner child over to the wrong people, to incompetent/disinterested people.
including those emotionally unavailable or detached.
You’re Welcome.
…never be ashamed of being normal, human
…never be ashamed of being normal, human
yes, that.
#selflove
selflove, not the love of others, (gods included) is the thing.
if I believed I had a lot to offer-
if I-
1. believed I had a lot to offer, and
2. was actually interested in taking part in the system and in other peoples’s basically bullshit jive-ass way of doing things…
what would I do…
that’s two questions…
ok, let’s rephrase:
if I;
1. believed I had a lot to offer and-
2. could at least “try” to do things however “I” would have them done,
what would I do…
hm, surprisingly hard to answer.
Belligerant Honesty
I know of people who are careful with what they say on facebook.
family.
I know of people who eventually rage and say they don’t care if someone unfriends them.
I know of people whom yesterday, over the Marriage Equality ruling, said things like “only one person unfriended me today,” or that “more than one person did so.”
50 or more people, likely more, I’ve only counted since june of last year, or maybe the year before…)
have unfriended me (since june of last year, or the year before.)
(I don’t know how many did before then.)
I’m almost proud, oddly, to say that I’ve NEVER had a problem with social conservatives on my facebook.
Belligerant Honesty, folks.
it has it’s points. particularly on facebook.
in real life too, yes.
Gay Marriage, that is, Marriage, happy happy
I support it. always have.
(not that I can see myself getting married, but that’s cause I have issues, with myself, but you know that.)
which leads me to my next post:
if you’re about to call someone “confused”…
if you’re about to call someone “confused”-
reason being that they say contradictory things, etc…
first, ask yourself if YOU are in fact the confused one instead.
people happier when THEIR needs are met
personally I think people are happier when their OWN needs are met, and THEIR OWN feelings are acknowledged and taken care of, rather than just subjugating them (almost always without their consent or even understanding (thanks tradition and religion)
yeah, rather than subjugating them to some grand larger whole, which may not have “anything” to do with THEM and THEIR FEELINGS.
it probably teaches them that
1. their own feelings don’t matter, and are bad; THEY don’t matter themselves,
2. BUT- if you subjugate yourself to “whatever”, you somehow become valuable, good,
eventhoughyouhaveandarecontinuingtominimizeyourownfeelingsandneedsandaremore-than-likelyteachingthisdiseasetoyoungpeopleoverandoverandoveragain.
PEOPLE! dammit, STOP IT!
ACKNOWLEDGE “YOUR” SELF AND “YOUR” FEELINGS AND NEEDS!!!
…
yeah, I think the world, if it ever happens, will be a lot less fucked up if we
accept that we are human and stop being guilty about it.